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结婚时的七大禁忌

结婚时的七大禁忌 Seven taboos of marriage

1.  忌吃喜饼

喜饼是喜气的象征,分发喜饼的习俗意在分享新婚的喜悦,并将混讯籍由喜饼传达给每一位至亲好友。在过大礼时,男方送来的喜饼新娘切记不可以吃,这样就会把自己的喜气吃掉。

2.  忌二次上香

很多传统家庭在嫁女之时都会在祖先或神灵供桌前告祭上香,女方除了要供奉礼饼,还要注意上香时尽量不要将香头插歪,如果插歪了也不要将香拔出再插第二次,因为二次上香有再婚的意思,对于初婚的新人来说是不吉利的。

3.  忌新郎独睡婚床

新被、新枕、新床品。。。。。。装扮的无懈可击的婚床,要安放至新婚夜前夕。在此过程中切忌准新郎一个人独睡新床,因为这样有婚后孤独的寓意,非常不吉利,如果新郎实在没有地方休息,可找一位大生肖的未成年男童陪睡。

4.  忌说再见

当婚礼结束亲友离开时,新人与亲友都不可以说“再见”,因为“再见”二字有分手和离别的含义,对新婚夫妇来说此寓意非常不好。所以在新人送宾客时。应该点头示意,或挥手送别即可。

5.  忌串门

新娘蜜月里不需要到亲友家串门的禁忌是自古流传下来的。因为一般人对蜜月里的新娘都要一种忌讳的心里,认为是对别人的不太吉利。这种不详要持续一个月才能消除。尤其是一些有老人的亲友家,应该格外注意不要在蜜月期去拜访。

6、 忌孕妇送亲

成亲之日,新娘出门时,孕妇不能相送。因为古时人们认为孕妇象征着血光,孕妇送亲会给新人带来血光之灾,所以在新娘出阁时,孕妇应该要回避。而且在新娘出门时,往往要燃放鞭炮,而且人员多,场面拥挤嘈杂,空气浑浊,为了孕妇的健康着想,也不应该加入到送亲的队伍中。

7、忌婚后三日内留宿到娘家

在中华传统的习俗中,婚后三日新郎会陪妻子回娘家,这叫“回门”。而需要注意的是“回门”当天必须在日落之前赶回夫家,忌夫妻一起留宿到娘家。这样会使娘家倒霉。万一特殊原因回不了家,夫妻俩也应该分开睡,将不详的感觉尽量化解。

1 avoid eating cake Cake is auspicious symbol, custom wedding cake distribution intended to share the joy, and mixed hearing by Wong convey to every close relatives and good friends. In the gift, he sent the bride cake remember not to eat, it will put their festive eating. 2 bogey two incense Many of the traditional family in married women when they will sacrifice to ancestors or spirits Zhuoqian incense, the woman in addition to worship cake, but also pay attention to not incense incense head inserted if the plug is crooked crooked, also will not pull out the incense inserted again second times, because the two incense remarried, is unlucky for married couples. 3 avoid groom alone sleep bed New quilt, new pillow, new bedding...... Dress impeccably wedding bed, to be placed to the wedding eve. In this process, we should not be the first person to sleep on a new bed, because such a lonely meaning of marriage, very unlucky, if the groom really no place to rest, you can find a big zodiac sign of the underage boy to accompany sleep. 4 avoid say goodbye When the wedding to close friends and relatives to leave, the couple and friends can not say goodbye, because goodbye two words have the meaning of breaking up and parting, for the newly married couple, this implies a very bad. So when the couple to send guests. Should the nod, or waved to. 5 avoid stopping The bride honeymoon does not need to relatives and friends together taboo is handed down from ancient times. Because the average person on the honeymoon of the bride to be a taboo in the heart, that is not too lucky for others. This unknown to last a month to eliminate. Especially some relatives and friends of the elderly, should be particularly careful not to visit the honeymoon period. 6, pregnant women avoid songqin A day, the bride went out, pregnant women can not send. Because in ancient times people think that pregnant women is a symbol of blood light, songqin pregnant women will give new people bring in the bride when her sworn revenge, so that pregnant women should avoid. But in the bride out, often to set off firecrackers, and many people crowded and noisy scene, air pollution, for the sake of the health of pregnant women, should not be added to the songqin team. 7, avoid marriage within three days to stay home In the Chinese traditional custom, after three days the groom will accompany his wife to return home, this is called "huimen". But note that "huimen" must return to the husband's family the day before sunset, the husband and wife to stay home. This will make her parents bad luck. In case of special reasons can not return home, the couple should also be separated from sleep, to try to resolve the unknown feeling.

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